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Wednesday, 4 September 2013

Bill without benefits

The Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill is aimed at addressing two different concerns — making divorce easy and protecting the economic rights of women, but succeeds in doing neither
Though the Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill, 2010, passed by the Rajya Sabha last week, granting some women a limited right in their husband’s property, is a step in the right direction, it falls short of expectations. The right has been extended only to Hindu women and those who marry under the Special Marriage Act and whose husbands have filed for divorce on the ground of marriage breakdown. What was needed was a separate statute (like the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act) to protect the economic rights of all married women and not just of a privileged few, and that too through convoluted clauses.
The Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill is aimed at addressing two different concerns — making divorce easy and protecting the economic rights of women, but succeeds in doing neither. To waive the statutory six month “cooling period” for securing a divorce by mutual consent, when both parties desire it due to hardships caused to them, one did not need a major law reform. The family courts across the country were routinely doing this in cases where the parties made a joint application explaining the hardship. In 2002, a three-judge bench of the Supreme Court in the Anjana Kishore vs Puneet Kishore case had directed the courts to do away with this provision. The higher judiciary was also granting divorce on the ground of breakdown of marriage in specific cases of protracted litigation. In 1995, in the Romesh Chander vs Savitri case, the Supreme Court, while upholding the principle of marriage breakdown, had directed the husband to transfer the matrimonial home to the wife’s name at the time of divorce.
Even while puncturing holes in the bill, one must admit that it is an improved version of the earlier bill introduced unceremoniously in the Rajya Sabha in August 2010 and later referred to the Joint Select Committee. The urgency for the 2010 bill was to rectify the harmful precedent set by a ruling of the Supreme Court which concerned the daughter of Sushil Kumar Shinde, the Union home minister. The Supreme Court had, in 2009, upheld the ruling of the Bombay high court which had set aside an irregular divorce granted by the family court of Mumbai under rather peculiar circumstances, disregarding the provisions of law. So a bill was hastily introduced, touted as a “women friendly” bill as it would make divorce easy for women despite the fact that it did not make any financial provisions to safeguard their rights. Not surprisingly, the bill received the support of men’s rights groups, which, in itself, ought to have been a warning signal.
Proverbially, one swallow does not a summer make. The need to obtain a quick divorce and “move on in life” is a luxury enjoyed by only a microscopic minority of women who are independent with sufficient means or family backing. For the rest, marriage is an economic partnership, and its dissolution, especially one that disregards their non-monetary contribution to the household in the form of unpaid labour, deprives them of their shelter and sustenance, rendering them destitute. In fact, most women approach the courts for maintenance under Section 125 of the Criminal Procedure Code when they are abandoned by their husbands. When orders are passed in their favour, the husbands file divorce proceedings to spite them. But under the present system, the husband has to prove cruelty or desertion, which even in the hands of the most astute lawyers is not easy. It is at this stage that the woman gets an opportunity to negotiate for her economic rights and a husband, eager to obtain a divorce, may be willing to negotiate a lump sum financial settlement. But if divorce becomes a certainty, women will be deprived of this negotiating power and the state would then have to step in and make a statutory provision to make their lives financially secure.
Rather unfortunately, this dire need to protect women was overlooked by the various law commissions while recommending the introduction of irretrievable breakdown of marriage within the Indian context, though all countries which they mention in support of their recommendations have a property division clause attached to the breakdown clause. The first official mention of this provision is found only in the Report of the Joint Select Committee submitted to the Rajya Sabha in March 2011, after several women’s groups made written and oral depositions before it.
But the present bill has several provisions which are counterproductive. It stipulates that if a petition for divorce is pending before a court for over three years, the courts have the power to dissolve the marriage. But the provision to keep a petition pending for three years is not available in law as it lapses at the end of 18 months. Soon after a petition lapses, the party desiring divorce can file on the ground of marriage breakdown without having to wait for a further period of one-and-a-half years.
Second, even for obtaining divorce on “no fault ground”, evidence would have to be led to prove the three years separation. To make matters worse, it allows a period of not more than three months of cohabitation in between. Third, in order to avail of the provision of property division, the wife would have to file a separate “petition” rather than a simple “interim application”.
And the most contentious issue — adequate provision to remedy the hardship caused to the wife, would need lengthy and elaborate trial. If the couple could reach a consensus, they would have opted for a divorce by mutual consent. The fact that it has reached a stage of invoking the ground of breakdown of marriage is a sure sign that it will lead to protracted litigation. The courts would then have to determine what is “self acquired”, what is ancestral and the notional value of “heritable” property as compared to other heirs and use the living standard criteria to ascertain undisclosed wealth — all this is a nightmare for any trial court judge.
It would have been simpler to declare that all property acquired by husband at the time of marriage or in the course of marriage be deemed as “joint property” to be divided at the time of divorce, with an additional clause to secure the wife’s rights in the matrimonial residence, as is done in Britain and other Commonwealth countries. This simple solution, along with a state scheme to prevent destitution of all abandoned women whose husbands do not own property, nor have any means of livelihood, would have been beneficial.
The writer is a women’s rights lawyer
 

सुहागरात में पत्नी ने मारी लात, युवक ने जिद पकड़ ली लड़की बनने की

अहमदाबाद। बीते शुक्रवार को अहमदाबाद के सिविल हॉस्पिटल में सेक्स चेंज का ऑपरेशन कराने पहुंचा युवक कौन था? आखिर क्यों उसने लड़की बनने की जिद ठानी? पुरुष से स्त्री बनने के लिए इसने क्या-क्या किया? यह जानने के लिए दिव्यभास्करडॉटकॉम की टीम इस युवक से मुलाकात की। 
 
बातचीत में पता चला कि इसके पीछे उसका दर्द था। वह विवाहित होने के बाद भी अब तक सेक्स से वंचित है। इतना ही नहीं, अब वह पत्नी से इतना त्रस्त हो चुका है कि उसने स्त्री बनकर रहने का दृढ़ निश्चय कर लिया है।
 

Monday, 2 September 2013

For equal laws

THE need for progressive reform in laws in general and in laws relating to women in particular has been on the agenda of women’s groups and organisations for long. In the past three decades, major amendments have been pushed through in existing laws and new laws for women, such as the Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act, 2005, have also emerged. At the same time, in the area of family and personal laws, it is an acknowledged fact that none of them gives women the right to marital property.
While women’s groups underpin their understanding of reform and change in the framework of more equality, others view reform from the narrow prism of imposing a uniform approach that apparently stems from sectarian and conservative motives. The central and overriding concern of women’s organisations such as the All India Democratic Women’s Association (AIDWA) was the question of equality, said Kirti Singh, senior advocate in the Supreme Court, and this included equality within their communities. In her experience, women’s groups, including AIDWA, have had to encounter resistance from multiple levels of patriarchy across communities.
The demand for a Uniform Civil Code (UCC) by certain political parties was rooted in the need for equality as seen from a certain standpoint. The approach to the UCC, said Kirti Singh, began getting defined in very difficult, unequal and political terms by parties like the Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP), which seemed to suggest that Hindu laws were the ideal laws and that all other laws in some sense should be like Hindu laws. Both the BJP and the Congress had opportunistic views, one in support of the UCC and the other in opposition to it, with an eye on votes.
“We distanced ourselves from these groups, the BJP’s position on the UCC as well as from sections within the Muslim communities who were against any reform from within and wrongly argued that it was against the tenets of their religion. We emphasised that we wanted equality within different communities and the ending of discrimination against women within the family too,” she said.
The experience of women’s groups during the Shah Bano agitation showed that women within the Muslim community were also keen for reform of the law, which patriarchal elements within the community opposed in the name of religion. In the 1990s, several Muslim reform groups began advocating reform within Muslim Personal Law, and Kirti Singh said women’s groups, including AIDWA, pushed for a two-pronged strategy to bring about common, equal laws in areas such as matrimonial property and registration of marriages. It became apparent that the sections opposing reform within religions also articulated from time to time a narrow and biased interpretation of religion as well.

http://www.frontline.in/cover-story/for-equal-laws/article5037793.ece 

Sunday, 1 September 2013

Lawyer felicitated for contribution in cause of men

ALLAHABAD: A High Court lawyer Arvind Kumar Pandey was felicitated by a section of lawyers for receiving an award at fifth National Men's Rights Conference held in Nagpur recently, for outstanding contribution in championing the cause of men in national and International arena, during a programme organized at Indian Coffee House on Saturday.

Addressing the lawyers, Arivind Kumar Pandey said, "Biased criminal laws have spoiled the lives of many men charged under the Dowry Act. The laws like Domestic Violence Act, IPC 498 a, and Maintenance Act, to name a few are heavily tilted in favour of women and have done more harm than producing good effects."

The Men's Rights National conference, held at Pench Tiger Reserve in Nagpur was attended by more than 150 men's rights activists, who represented 40,000 activists spread across India and other parts of the globe.

This year's national conference was held under the aegis of Nagpur Chapter of Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF), now being run by Rajesh Vakharia. Few prominent International Men's Rights Associations like Marital Justice from United Kingdom and INSAAF from USA besides Men's Rights activists from Germany, Singapore, Japan, Australia, South Africa, Middle East, Japan and Russia also attended the conference.

Informing about the resolutions passed at fifth Men's Rights conference Arvind Kumar Pandey, who attended the conference as a writer and blogger said, "The first resolution was aimed at formation of Men's Welfare Ministry while the next resolution aimed at reducing the number of men involved in hazardous professions and another important resolution dealt with creation of gender-neutral treatment in legal aspects. Recognition of the rights of fathers, making shared parenting necessary in wake of separation was another major demand made on the occasion. The activists were unanimous in rejecting the highly biased Marriage Law Amendment Bill, 2010, and demanded its roll back. Lastly, the need to make huge investment in areas of Men's health was deeply felt."

The felicitation ceremony at Coffee House, Allahabad, was attended by advocates including Neeraj Shukla, Sampanna Kumar Srivastava, Ashish Nigam, Satyadhar Dubey, Arvind Kushwaha, Pintu Jaiswal, Shubhranshu Pandey, Arun Prakash Srivastava, Mohit Kesarwani and few others.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/allahabad/Lawyer-felicitated-for-contribution-in-cause-of-men/articleshow/22197623.cms 

Wednesday, 28 August 2013

Marriage law: The 'Inter Continental Ballistic Missile' of a Bill

The Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill, approved by the Rajya Sabha on Monday, has long been pegged the 'Intercontinental Continental Ballistic Missile' (ICBM) Bill by protesting men's groups, for its inclusion of the 'Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage (IBM)' clause as a valid condition for divorce.

Virag Dhulia, a men's rights activist and head of gender studies at the Bangalore-based Confidare Research says, "The Rajya Sabha has betrayed us. We now hope the Lok Sabha MPs will not let us down." Men's groups like Dhulia's partnered with Men's Rights Association, Pune and have been protesting the Bill for months now. In December 2012 they led a rally to Jantar Mantar and courted detention on May 1, 2013 en route the Prime Minister's residence. Their objections to the Bill are that it will blindly give away property in the name of marriage, that men will stop marrying to prevent this, thus destabilizing the institution of marriage.

"Whichever country has these clauses also has supportive laws like a legalization of pre-nuptial agreements, which India doesn't have. India is cherry picking laws that suit them, which can prove disastrous. In 2011, China rolled back a law like this because men had stopped marrying and stopped buying property" Dhulia warns.

But the Bill is in fact far reaching and thought out over a period of decades. The first proposals for amendments to the Hindu Marriage Act came from the Law Commission in 1978. Two more Law Commission reports, several Supreme Court Judgements and after much debate among invested parties led by women's groups like Majlis, the Bill has been tabled.

Chakshu Roy, head of technology initiatives at PRS Legislative Research, New Delhi says, "The Law Commission and the Supreme Court have on a number of occasions recommended the inclusion of irretrievable breakdown of marriage as a ground for divorce. The Law Commission suggested that before a divorce is granted on this ground, the court should ensure adequate financial arrangements have been made for the parties and children. The Bill incorporates these suggestions and introduces this ground for divorce and makes financial provision for the wife and children."

What the Bill essentially says is that there are certain conditions based on which either the husband or wife can apply for divorce. These are cruelty, medical reasons such as communicable diseases, mental illnesses, desertion. The Bill essentially sought to correct the lacuna that arose from the need to dissolve the marriage in the eventuality that none of these stand i.e. the dissolution of marriage due to an organic breakdown.

The Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage clause allows a woman or a man to exit on the premise that she is unfulfilled or unhappy in a marriage after a three year period of separation. The wife also bears the right to block a divorce thrust upon her if she can prove she will be in grave financial hardship. The Bill will also allow the court to consider a waiver of the 6-18 month lock-in period for couples who file by mutual consent.

A huge triumph, points out activist and head of women's group Majlis, Flavia Agnes, is the Bill's determination of the compensation due to the wife. In doing so, the Bill now allows the court to take into account inherited and inheritable properties. This becomes a crucial factor in cases where husbands are able to sell off properties in their name and prove they have no assets, leaving the wife without compensation.

Men's groups protest this clause saying it allows women to divorce a man after five days and "clean him out". Agnes dismisses concerns stating that women have gotten the short end of the stick for far too long.

A lot of the debate has been ill-informed. Advocates state that the court will consider many factors while making such a decision. As any nuclear armed country knows, setting off a missile isn't so simple, there are many check points.

Court sentences 7 year imprisonment to woman for buying minor


A woman has been sent to jail for seven years by a Delhi court for buying two minor girls for prostitution and abetting their rapes.
Additional Sessions Judge T R Naval sentenced 30-year-old Pooja to seven years rigorous imprisonment for the crime, saying it has been proved that she purchased the minors for the purpose of prostitution, wrongfully confined them and also abetted other persons to forcefully have sexual intercourse with the girls.
"This court has come to the conclusion that entire evidence has proved that accused Pooja committed offence of buying minors for the purpose of prostitution, offence of wrongfully concealing and confining prosecutrix No. 1 and 2 (victims) and other girls after kidnapping them with the purpose to use them for the purpose of prostitution.
Court sentences 7 year imprisonment to woman for buying minor  Court sentences 7 year imprisonment to woman for buying minor
"Therefore, it is bounden duty of this court to hold accused no.3 (Pooja) guilty and convict her," the court said.
The judge said it has been proved that she used to present the girls to many customers, who used to pay her for the purpose of physical relations.
It imposed a fine of Rs 20,000 on Pooja and said that Rs 5,000 each be given to the two victim and that they will also be entitled for other compensation as per law.
Out of the two accused, Meena was declared a proclaimed offender and the court said the evidence placed on record will be read against her. Another accused Mohd Saleem was earlier convicted by the court after he had confessed his guilt.
According to the prosecution, the police conducted a raid at a house in Laxmi Nagar and at a brothel in G B Road in April 2004 and two girls were rescued. The girls told the police that they were kidnapped by the accused persons after being given a sedatives-laced drink.

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/court-sentences-7-year-imprisonment-to-woman-for-buying-minor/417385-3-244.html

Tuesday, 27 August 2013

Rajya Sabha Debate on Marriage Amendment Bill - 2013

Bill to negate Supreme Court verdict gets Rajya Sabha nod

NEW DELHI: Contending that there was a need to check growing "criminalisation" in politics, Rajya Sabha on Tuesday "unanimously passed" a bill negating a Supreme Court verdict to allow people in jail to contest polls.


Representation of the People (Amendment and Validation) Bill, 2013 provides for a change in the act of 1951. The amendment to sub-clause 5 of section 62 of the RPA, if passed by Parliament, shall come into effect from July 10, 2013, the day the Supreme Court gave its judgement that those in jail can not contest election.

"The fact is that the political class is the most accountable class in the country. Politicians are accountable to Parliament, to the Election Commission, to the country, to the people, to whom we go every after five years. We are the most accountable set of people in the country," Law minister Kapil Sibal said in his reply after a discussion on the bill.

"It is we who have passed the law to make us accountable. It is us who have decided to disclose our assets. Which other institution has taken such steps to make themselves more accountable," he said.

Sibal, who was congratulated by all members for bringing the Bill, said the apex court's order might perhaps not have come had the "environment" been different.

"I dare say, in an another environment, we perhaps would not get such a judgement. The environment is that political class is being looked upon with suspicion," Sibal said.

After examining the Supreme Court order, Government had filed a review petition, but instead of waiting for the outcome, it felt the need to "suitably" address the situation. 
 http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Bill-to-negate-Supreme-Court-verdict-gets-Rajya-Sabha-nod/articleshow/22097825.cms 

Men's rights activists hope Lok Sabha won't okay 'husband killer law'

The Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill, dubbed as a husband killer law by men’s rights activists, was approved by the Rajya Sabha on Monday. Men’s rights groups who have been staging nationwide protests and holding debates on the issue say they will continue to meet with lawmakers to persuade them not to pass the bill in the Lok Sabha.

Virag Dhulia, a leading men’s rights activist, told rediff.com that they were trying to establish communication with members of Parliament on the subject. “We are telling them about the problems this bill would cause as the male in general is the stakeholder in this draconian law. We are trying to tell them what changes ought to be made to this bill and how, if it gets presidential assent, it would become a disaster. We hope our lawmakers would take into consideration all this and not to pass bills merley keeping in mind vote bank politics.”
Among other things the Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill empowers the courts to decide the compensation amount for the wife and children from the husband’s inherited and inheritable properties once the marriage ends legally. The Bill allows parties to file for divorce on the ground of “irretrievable breakdown” of marriage. Both parties have to live apart for at least three years before filing such a petition.
Dhulia points out, “Basically the hard-earned money and property of the man will not belong to him” once this Bill becomes law.
The Bill also provides for restricting the grant of a decree of divorce if the court is satisfied that adequate provision for maintenance of the children has not been made consistent with the financial capacity of the parties to the marriage.
Also, the wife has the right to oppose the grant of divorce on the ground that the dissolution of marriage could result in grave financial hardship, but no such provision has been made for the husband. “Law Minister Kapil Sibal has totally ignored the National Crime Records Bureau data which states that every year more than 65,000 married men end their lives,” the activists point out.
As per the Bill’s statement of objectives, the Hindu Marriage Act and the Special Marriages Act have proved to be inadequate in dealing with cases where there has been an irretrievable breakdown of marriage and hence it was decided to amend the law. Even the Supreme Court had pointed out the need to introduce ‘irretrievable breakdown of marriage’ and ‘mutual consent’ as grounds for granting divorce in order to reduce litigation and to enable both parties move on in their life.
What Sibal failed to take into consideration was how such a law would reduce litigation when cases filed by women under the dowry and harassment laws and child custody are not decided at the time of issuing a divorce decree, the activists point out.

http://www.rediff.com/news/report/mens-rights-activists-hope-lok-sabha-wont-okay-husband-killer-law/20130827.htm?sc_cid=fbshare

मैरिज लॉ में संशोधन पास, अब तलाक लेना चाहते हैं तो अपनी संपत्ति बांटने के लिए भी रहें तैयार

तलाक होने की स्थिति में पति की संपत्ति में पत्नी और बच्चों को अधिकार सुनिश्चित करने के मकसद से एक महत्वपूर्ण विधेयक को राज्यसभा की मंजूरी मिल गयी.
पति की अचल संपत्ति में पत्नी और बच्चों का अधिकार सुनिश्चित करने वाले विवाह विधि (संशोधन) विधेयक 2010 को सोमवार को चर्चा के बाद उच्च सदन ने ध्वनिमत से मंजूरी प्रदान कर दी. विधेयक में तलाक की स्थिति में पत्नी को पति की अचल संपत्ति से मिलने वाले हिस्से की मात्रा को निर्धारित नहीं किया गया है और यह तय करने का काम अदालत पर छोड़ दिया गया है.
विधेयक पर हुई चर्चा का जवाब देते हुए कानून मंत्री कपिल सिब्बल ने कहा कि पुरुष प्रधान समाज में महिलाओं को अधिकार दिलाने के लिए यह विधेयक काफी महत्वपूर्ण साबित होगा. इसके तहत पति की स्वअर्जित संपत्ति में से पत्नी को अधिकार मिलेगा. उन्होंने कहा कि यह प्रावधान चल संपत्ति पर भी लागू होगा.
उन्होंने कहा कि तलाक के दौरान सभी तथ्यों पर विचार कर न्यायाधीश फैसला करेंगे कि पत्नी को कितना गुजारा भत्ता दिया जाना चाहिए. अगर अदालत के फैसले से असहमति हो तो उच्च अदालतों में उसे चुनौती दी जा सकती है.
सिब्बल ने कहा कि विधेयक में महिला और पुरुष दोनों का ही ध्यान रखा गया है. उन्होंने कहा कि कुल आबादी में महिलाओं की संख्या 50 फीसदी होने के बावजूद संपत्ति का 98 फीसदी हिस्सा पुरुषों के पास होता है. ऐसे में विधेयक के माध्यम से यह संदेश जाना चाहिए तलाक के बाद महिलाओं का भविष्य सुरक्षित होगा.
कानून मंत्री ने सदस्यों के स्पष्टीकरण के जवाब में कहा कि विशेष विवाह कानून के तहत विवाह का पंजीकरण होने पर किसी भी धर्म की महिला और पुरुष साथ भेदभाव वाली बात नहीं है बल्कि इसमें सभी धर्म के लोगों के लिए वैवाहिक सुरक्षा की बात है. दो नागरिक बराबर के हकदार हैं और विशेष विवाह कानून के तहत विवाह कर सकते हैं.
सिब्बल ने कहा कि तलाक का फैसला तब तक नहीं होगा जब तक यह स्पष्ट नहीं हो जाता कि विवाह से जन्म लेने वाले बच्चों के पालनपोषण के लिए दोनों पक्षों की वित्तीय स्थिति के अनुरूप समुचित व्यवस्था की गई है.
इससे पहले विधेयक पर चर्चा की शुरुआत करते हुए बीजेपी की नजमा हेपतुल्ला ने कहा कि देश की सभी महिलाओं के लिए एक ही कानून होना चाहिये चाहे वह किसी भी जाति की हों या किसी भी धर्म की हों. उन्होंने कहा कि देश में मुस्लिम महिलाओं की आबादी लगभग 10 करोड़ है लेकिन सरकार ने इस बड़ी आबादी के हक में बारे में नहीं सोचा. इनके हितों के बारे में बोलने के लिए कोई खड़ा नहीं होता.
उन्होंने कहा कि महिलाओं के पक्ष में कई कानून बने लेकिन अब तक वह अपने अधिकारों से वंचित हैं. उन्होंने कहा कि महिलाओं के साथ भेदभाव नहीं किया जाना चाहिए और सभी धर्मो की महिलाओं का ध्यान रखा जाना चाहिए.
बीएसपी के नरेंद्र कश्यप ने कहा कि विधेयक में पति की संपत्ति में पत्नी को हिस्सा देने की बात कही गई है लेकिन यह स्पष्ट नहीं किया गया है कि बच्चों को इस हिस्सेदारी में से कितना हिस्सा मिलेगा. उन्होंने यह भी सवाल किया कि अगर पति के पास कुछ न हो और पत्नी बड़ी संपत्ति की मालिक हो तो क्या इस स्थिति में पति को तलाक के बाद पत्नी की संपत्ति से कोई हिस्सा मिलेगा. माकपा की झरना दास वैद्य ने कहा कि तलाक के बाद कितना फीसदी हिस्सा पत्नी को मिलेगा यह स्पष्ट होना चाहिए.
तृणमूल कांग्रेस के डेरेक ओ’ब्रायन ने कहा कि कानून में लिंग के आधार पर कोई भेदभाव नहीं होना चाहिए और महिलाओं के सशक्तिकरण के समय पुरुषों की उपेक्षा नहीं की जानी चाहिए. सपा के अरविंद कुमार सिंह ने कहा कि इसमें बेरोजगार पति को तलाक के बाद पत्नी से गुजाराभत्ता मिलने का प्रावधान होना चाहिए. उन्होंने यह भी सुनिश्चित करने की मांग की कि इस कानून का दुरुपयोग न हो.
डीएमके की कनिमोई ने इस बात को लेकर आश्चर्य जताया कि महिलाओं से जुड़े कानूनों को लेकर दुरुपयोग की आशंका क्यों जताई जाती है. उन्होंने भी गुजाराभत्ता पर स्पष्ट प्रावधान की मांग की. एनसीपी की वंदना चौहान ने कहा कि यह सही है कि कोई भी पत्नी अत्यंत अपरिहार्य परिस्थिति में ही तलाक चाहती है लेकिन इस प्रावधान पर पुनर्विचार करना चाहिए कि उसके द्वारा दायर तलाक की अर्जी को पति चुनौती नहीं दे सकेगा.
शिवसेना के भरत कुमार राउत ने कहा कि इस कानून के दायरे में सभी धर्मो की महिलाओं को लाना चाहिए और धर्म तथा लिंग के आधार पर इसमें कोई भेदभाव नहीं होना चाहिए. उन्होंने सवाल किया कि पत्नी की कमाई पति से अधिक होने की स्थिति में गुजाराभत्ता किस तरह तय होगा. उन्होंने कहा कि पति की संपत्ति में से पत्नी को हिस्से के प्रावधान की वजह से लोग तलाक से बचना चाहेंगे. अगर पत्नी को पति की संपत्ति में से हिस्सा मिलता है और वह पुनर्विवाह करना चाहती है तो क्या वह संपत्ति रख सकती है या और कोई विकल्प होगा.
बीजेडी के प्यारीमोहन महापात्र ने तलाक के आधार पर गहन विचारविमर्श की मांग की. उन्होंने संपत्ति के समान बंटवारे की भी मांग की. बीजेपी के थावरचंद गहलोत ने समान नागरिक संहिता कानून बनाए जाने की मांग करते हुए कहा कि कानून में तलाक के लिए 18 माह के इंतजार की बात कही गई है जबकि यह अवधि बहुत ज्यादा है.
टीडीपी की जी सुधारानी ने कहा कि कानून में वर्णित तलाक के मुख्य आधार ‘इर्र्रिटीवल ब्रेकडाउन’ (असुधार्य भंग) की स्पष्ट व्याख्या होनी चाहिए. उन्होंने जानना चाहा कि घरेलू हिंसा और भारतीय दंड संहिता की अन्य धाराओं के तहत लंबित तलाक के मामलों का क्या होगा.
चर्चा में बीजेपी के रंगासाई रामकृष्ण, रामा जोइस, ज्ञानप्रकाश पिलानिया, निर्दलीय मोहम्मद अदीब, शिरोमणि अकाली दल के बलविंदर सिंह भुंडर, बीजद की रेणुबाला प्रधान, भाकपा के एम पी अच्युतन और कांग्रेस के रामप्रकाश ने भी भाग लिया.

http://aajtak.intoday.in/story/rajya-sabha-approves-bill-to-make-divorce-women-friendly-1-740204.html

Monday, 26 August 2013

Indian men treated as Collateral Damage

Collateral Damage is what I begin to feel can best describe the situation for treatment of men in India, after watching a discussion by parliamentarians. The Indian parliament passed a bill that would amend the Hindu Marriage Law introducing new grounds of divorce under a situation described as “Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage.” Needless to say it is heavily loaded against men and is being passed on as “social justice.”
India had a hierarchical caste system, wherein the lower castes were denied certain opportunities, while the higher castes carried certain responsibilities and enjoyed liberties. In some ways, when the question of emancipation of the neglected came, it was found justifiable that sharing the limited resources by denying rights to one section and handing it over to another was social justice.
Later another form of social justice came up. This time with the baggage of a false notion of “patriarchy,” India was convinced that women have been deprived of rights and they need empowerment. Although, the definition of women remained, and even now remains only restricted to, being a wife. Any other role of woman in a household -mothers and sisters of a husband- does not evoke the same emotions due to some convoluted perception of a marital set-up by feminists and their backers.
Laws after laws are being created, which are being called pro-women, but in reality are only anti-men. When the flaws in these laws are highlighted the arguments usually end-up with mentioning of the historical disadvantage that women have had in India. Misandry like a hydra-headed monster rises in all of its forms. Somehow, it has become acceptable to unnecessarily punish the men of today to try to salvage the situation of women.
The men of my generation have begun to wonder if they are being used as fodder, so that the proponents of social justice could counter the sense of guilt in their hearts. Every politician we meet says he understands we are being discriminated against. Every person agreed that the law being framed for Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage was biased against men. Most tried to explain to us how the society in general is going through a transitional phase and ‘some’ men will suffer until equilibrium is attained. Never mind that they want to dismiss the facts about the ‘some’ men being a humungous number of 65000 married men committing suicide every year in India. The urge for the soothsayers to live in denial, makes them forget that the figure means every 7 minutes a married man commits suicide in India.
They can continue to become reason for someone’s death. But we refuse to become ‘Collateral Damage’ in their process of attaining self-satisfaction to achieve some irrational form of social justice. The Men’s rights movement in India is only getting stronger and it reflects in today’s discussion on the amendment to the marriage law in Rajya Sabha – the upper house of parliament. The discussion on this law has been another landmark for men’s rights in India, with many members from opposition regional political parties voicing the agenda of men’s rights in parliament which will go on record in the annals of history. The Law Minister had to misinform the house, at certain points to gain support, for e.g. he said the bill is gender neutral, when he knows it is not – a husband cannot oppose a petition filed by a wife, property(self-acquired before or after marriage, inherited and also inheritable) of only the husband is considered for division. The statements will be well documented in the records. History will judge that the people who brought this law were on the wrong side of justice.
The discussion has been storified here http://storify.com/antidespondent/irretrievable-breakdown-of-marriage-discussion-in
The only fear is the passage of this law, should not accelerate the numbers of suicides by men, who might feel there is no hope of help from the society. Thereby lies, the next challenge for the men’s rights activists in India, to continue reaching out to a populace of 500 million men.
 
 
http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/indian-men-treated-as-collateral-damage/ 

Tuesday, 20 August 2013

'Society and laws need to be men-friendly too'

While all of us were celebrating Independence Day, a few men from all over the country assembled in the city to discuss some pressing issues. They were members of various men's rights organizations who had come to attend a national conference under the aegis of Men's Rights Association (MRA), a first-of-its-kind event. Two of the pioneers of the movement in India, IT professional and one of the founders of Save Indian Family Foundation, Pandurang Katti and, businessman and president of Children's Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting (CRISP), Kumar Jahgirdar spoke to TOI about the emergence of men's rights movement, the need for more gender-neutral marital laws and masculinity among other things.

Excerpts from an interview ---

What prompted you to consider being part of the men's rights movement?

PK. Small things like different tax slabs for same salary levels and reserved seats in public transport seemed unfair to me. Then came article 498A which I read was being misused in many cases. Then it hit closer home when I was acquitted under the same law in 2004. It was my wife's word against my evidence and our genders dictated the assumption of who was wrong.

What do you think of society's definitions of roles of men and women?

KJ. Sadly, the age-old mindset of men being providers and women being homemakers still prevails. Despite all talks about equality, society does not treat men and women equally. This extends to marriages as well, without realizing that marriages are not for competing but for complementing each other.

PK. Men are looked upon as monsters until they prove otherwise. There are several wrongful expectations from men which are seen in many aspects of life a" work, marriage and even in relations before marriage. The blame for any woman's committing suicide is invariably pegged on a man close to her, like it happened in the Suraj Panscholi case. There are cases like that Kausar Begum of Bangalore who married 12 times, earning lots of money by getting all the husbands arrested under domestic violence act.

How do you perceive women's rights movement?

KJ. It has become fashionable to talk about women empowerment and women's liberation in the name of chivalry. While doing so, human rights are sometimes kept on stake. Women have suffered a lot, for centuries. But thatas no excuse to make the current generation of men suffer, too. We must have a more human approach to things rather than feministic or chauvinistic.

Which Indian laws do you think are unfair?

PK. Several laws are misused by women, and used as a way of blackmailing men. Article 498A, that deals with dowry-related cases is the first that comes to mind. We believe it should be made a civil law, and a bailable offence. Under the Domestic Violence Act, the very definition of violence is questionable. Even domestic tiffs can land an entire family in jail. Rape laws are applicable to a man promising marriage to a woman if they have been intimate. This happens only in India.

KJ. The very reason we have shunned the celebrations of Independence is Marriage Law Amendment Bill 2010. Under this bill, it is proposed that a man can't challenge a divorce petition filed by his wife. It also allows the woman a claim over ancestral property of her former husband after divorce. This bill is unfair in so many ways. In cases of separation of parents, the judiciary in India assumes that the child needs a mother more than a father. A bad husband is not necessarily a bad father. All children need both parents equally.

Are there any suggestions for improving the current laws?

PK. In several divorce cases, the women ask for big amounts of alimony that are many times unjustifiable, like when a doctor wife asked her husband for a big sum monthly, of which Rs 35,000 was to be spent on entertainment. While deciding these amounts, especially in cases where the woman is gainfully employed, the financial and other situations of both parties must be duly considered.

KJ. To reduce the stress of a breaking marriage on children, shared parenting must be allowed as a norm. These cases must be disposed at the earliest possible. People found guilty of misusing laws like 498A, domestic violence act and such must be punished. Also, many times when women violate court orders judges go soft on them, which should not be done. Children's rights are constantly ignored in cases of separating and divorcing parents, where they are even used as weapons to fight personal battles.

You call the movement you have started "masculinism". How does it differ from chauvinism or chivalry?

PK. There is what we call cultural chauvinism in our society. This calls for more realistic expectations from men instead of putting excessive responsibility on them. The modern society gives women equal opportunities, so it is only fair to provide men with certain choices and freedom, too. Laws and society need not only be women-friendly but also men-friendly.

The changes in the way of living have affected marriages, too. Does that strike as a positive change to you?

KJ. In modern marriages, both men and women share all responsibilities, whether they are domestic or financial. This culture is spreading very fast, too. However, the cases of divorces and legal hassles that people have to live with for their whole lives are also increasing. 
  http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/nagpur/Society-and-laws-need-to-be-men-friendly-too/articleshow/21930311.cms