If someone can call "Tunch" to any lady & if its praising them, then I feel word should get added in Male dictionary to call any lady.....
Saturday, 27 July 2013
Navy wife swapping scandal: Complainant arrested for fraud
Navy wife swapping scandal: Complainant arrested for fraud
The woman, whose complaint of wife swapping rocked the naval base in Kochi in April, was on Saturday arrested by Delhi police for allegedly committing a forgery by procuring a credit card in the name of her estranged husband.
Police arrested Sujata Sahoo from her residence in South Delhi under sections 420 (cheating), 468 and 471 (forgery) and Emblem and Name (Prevention of Improper Use) Act, a Delhi police spokesman said.
Kamini Jaiswal, counsel for Sahoo in the wife swapping case, has denied the charges and said it was an attempt to malign her client.
She accused the Delhi police of torturing Sahoo.
Jaiswal said that her client was dragged from her house and beaten.
"As a result of this, she has received injuries and the police have not been ensuring a proper medical check-up," Jaiswal alleged.
She said that her client had been informing her about the repeated threats received by her and warnings about dire consequences if she did not withdraw her complaint, in which she has named senior naval officials.
According to Delhi police, Sahoo was arrested from Jia Sarai after State Bank of India's IIT branch complained that she was trying to procure a credit card in the name of her estranged husband, Ravi Kant, using his forged PAN card and employment letter of the Indian Navy.
The bank, according to Delhi police, has videographed everything pertaining to the alleged procurement of the credit card.
Defence Minister A K Antony had promised to take strong action if anybody was found guilty in the alleged wife swapping case.
Sahoo had also filed a case of dowry harassment under Section 489A against her husband and the case has been transferred to Kochi.
http://www.rediff.com/news/report/navy-wife-swapping-scandal-complainant-arrested-for-fraud/20130727.htm
The woman, whose complaint of wife swapping rocked the naval base in Kochi in April, was on Saturday arrested by Delhi police for allegedly committing a forgery by procuring a credit card in the name of her estranged husband.
Police arrested Sujata Sahoo from her residence in South Delhi under sections 420 (cheating), 468 and 471 (forgery) and Emblem and Name (Prevention of Improper Use) Act, a Delhi police spokesman said.
Kamini Jaiswal, counsel for Sahoo in the wife swapping case, has denied the charges and said it was an attempt to malign her client.
She accused the Delhi police of torturing Sahoo.
Jaiswal said that her client was dragged from her house and beaten.
"As a result of this, she has received injuries and the police have not been ensuring a proper medical check-up," Jaiswal alleged.
She said that her client had been informing her about the repeated threats received by her and warnings about dire consequences if she did not withdraw her complaint, in which she has named senior naval officials.
According to Delhi police, Sahoo was arrested from Jia Sarai after State Bank of India's IIT branch complained that she was trying to procure a credit card in the name of her estranged husband, Ravi Kant, using his forged PAN card and employment letter of the Indian Navy.
The bank, according to Delhi police, has videographed everything pertaining to the alleged procurement of the credit card.
Defence Minister A K Antony had promised to take strong action if anybody was found guilty in the alleged wife swapping case.
Sahoo had also filed a case of dowry harassment under Section 489A against her husband and the case has been transferred to Kochi.
http://www.rediff.com/news/report/navy-wife-swapping-scandal-complainant-arrested-for-fraud/20130727.htm
False cases behind Delhi's tag of rape capital: Court
False cases behind Delhi's tag of rape capital: Court
False cases are the reasons behind labelling of Delhi as 'rape capital'; a court in Delhi has held while acquitting a 75-year-old man of the charge of sexually assaulting his maid after the woman turned hostile.
The court said after the December 16 gang-rape of a 23-year-old girl in a moving bus lead to the creation of an atmosphere that "the mere statement of a lady that she has been raped, came to be taken as gospel truth, the accused arrested and chargesheeted".
"This lead to an unprecedented surge in filing of false rape cases...It is these false cases which play havoc with the crime statistics, leading to the labelling of Delhi as a 'rape capital'," Additional Sessions Judge Virender Bhat said, while acquitting Bhopal Sharma of the charge of sexually assaulting his maid.
The court observed that as acquittals in such cases are hardly ever reported, the falsely implicated persons lose their honour, dignity and status in the society and though these cannot be restored, "these victims" can be compensated so that they can start life afresh.
It also noted that "it is a matter of intense regret that even the frail, sick and aged persons are not spared from the false allegations of rape".
According to the prosecution, Sharma and his neighbour Anita had become friends when they met in a hospital where his ailing wife was admitted. After his wife's death, Anita had arranged for the woman, who was in her 30s, to work as a maid in his home.
The maid in her complaint had said a few days after she started working at Sharma's house in July 2012; he had raped her and after the incident, had promised to marry her.
Thereafter, he continued to have sexual relations with her on the pretext of marrying her, the maid had alleged, adding that she lodged the police complaint on October 11, 2012 after Sharma expressed his unwillingness to keep his promise.
However, during the trial, the woman turned hostile and said she had levelled false allegations on the advice of Anita and another person Kuldeep.
While acquitting Sharma, the judge noted that the maid, a divorcee, had levelled the allegation of rape against the senior citizen on the behest of her neighbour Anita and Kuldeep in order to usurp the man's property.
Expressing the need for courts to be empowered to award compensation to victims of false rape cases, the judge also lamented that media turns a blind eye to acquittals in such cases.
"Nobody bothers to see in how many cases the accused in fact are convicted. Media turns a blind eye towards acquittals. The acquittal of an accused is not noticed at all and he continues to be labelled as a 'rapist' even after his honourable acquittal.
"Their lost honour, dignity and status in the society cannot be restored but they can be compensated so that they are able to start life afresh. The courts need to be empowered to award compensation to men acquitted in false rape cases," the court said.
The judge also said right from the first day when accused was produced before him, he had wondered, "How such a frail old man, who cannot even stand straight, would rape a young lady in her mid-30's, having lot more strength than the accused?"
http://www.ndtv.com/article/cities/false-cases-behind-delhi-s-tag-of-rape-capital-court-397821
False cases are the reasons behind labelling of Delhi as 'rape capital'; a court in Delhi has held while acquitting a 75-year-old man of the charge of sexually assaulting his maid after the woman turned hostile.
The court said after the December 16 gang-rape of a 23-year-old girl in a moving bus lead to the creation of an atmosphere that "the mere statement of a lady that she has been raped, came to be taken as gospel truth, the accused arrested and chargesheeted".
"This lead to an unprecedented surge in filing of false rape cases...It is these false cases which play havoc with the crime statistics, leading to the labelling of Delhi as a 'rape capital'," Additional Sessions Judge Virender Bhat said, while acquitting Bhopal Sharma of the charge of sexually assaulting his maid.
The court observed that as acquittals in such cases are hardly ever reported, the falsely implicated persons lose their honour, dignity and status in the society and though these cannot be restored, "these victims" can be compensated so that they can start life afresh.
It also noted that "it is a matter of intense regret that even the frail, sick and aged persons are not spared from the false allegations of rape".
According to the prosecution, Sharma and his neighbour Anita had become friends when they met in a hospital where his ailing wife was admitted. After his wife's death, Anita had arranged for the woman, who was in her 30s, to work as a maid in his home.
The maid in her complaint had said a few days after she started working at Sharma's house in July 2012; he had raped her and after the incident, had promised to marry her.
Thereafter, he continued to have sexual relations with her on the pretext of marrying her, the maid had alleged, adding that she lodged the police complaint on October 11, 2012 after Sharma expressed his unwillingness to keep his promise.
However, during the trial, the woman turned hostile and said she had levelled false allegations on the advice of Anita and another person Kuldeep.
While acquitting Sharma, the judge noted that the maid, a divorcee, had levelled the allegation of rape against the senior citizen on the behest of her neighbour Anita and Kuldeep in order to usurp the man's property.
Expressing the need for courts to be empowered to award compensation to victims of false rape cases, the judge also lamented that media turns a blind eye to acquittals in such cases.
"Nobody bothers to see in how many cases the accused in fact are convicted. Media turns a blind eye towards acquittals. The acquittal of an accused is not noticed at all and he continues to be labelled as a 'rapist' even after his honourable acquittal.
"Their lost honour, dignity and status in the society cannot be restored but they can be compensated so that they are able to start life afresh. The courts need to be empowered to award compensation to men acquitted in false rape cases," the court said.
The judge also said right from the first day when accused was produced before him, he had wondered, "How such a frail old man, who cannot even stand straight, would rape a young lady in her mid-30's, having lot more strength than the accused?"
http://www.ndtv.com/article/cities/false-cases-behind-delhi-s-tag-of-rape-capital-court-397821
पति पर बेवफाई के झूठे आरोप क्रूरता हैं, पति तलाक मांगने का हकदार: हाईकोर्ट
पति पर बेवफाई के झूठे आरोप क्रूरता हैं, पति तलाक मांगने का हकदार: हाईकोर्ट
यदि कोई महिला अपने पति पर झूठा आरोप लगाती है कि विवाह के बाद भी उसके किसी पराई औरत के साथ संबंध हैं तो पति इन आरोपों के आधार पर तलाक की मांग कर सकता है. यही नहीं, इस तरह के आरोप मानसिक क्रूरता कहलाएंगे. बंबई हाई कोर्ट ने एक मामले में अपना फैसला सुनाते हुए ऐसा कहा है.
बंबई हाईकोर्ट ने अदालत की कार्यवाही के दौरान पत्नी द्वारा अपने पति पर विवाहोत्तर संबंधों के बेबुनियाद आरोप लगाने को क्रूरता करार देते हुए पति को इस आधार पर तलाक की मंज़ूरी दे दी.
पढ़ें: मैरिज एक्ट में संशोधनः पत्नी को मिलेगा पति की पैतृक संपत्ति में हिस्सा
अदालत ने पुणे की एक अदालत के फैसले को खारिज करते हुए यह आदेश दिया. निचली अदालत ने 11 जुलाई को क्रूरता के आधार पर दायर एक व्यक्ति की तलाक की याचिका खारिज कर दी थी.
पढ़ें: अफेयर खत्म होने पर सेक्स संबंध बलात्कार नहीं: हाईकोर्ट
न्यायमूर्ति जी एस पटेल और न्यायमूर्ति ओ एस ओका ने महेश और मोहिनी पैगुडे के बीच तलाक को मंजूरी दे दी. दोनों का विवाह 13 मार्च 2001 को हुआ था. महेश ने पुणे परिवार अदालत में याचिका दायर करके क्रूरता के आधार पर तलाक की मांग की थी. उसने कहा था कि उसकी पत्नी ने उस पर विवाहेतर संबंधों के बेबुनियाद आरोप लगाए.
उच्च न्यायालय ने कहा कि इस प्रकार के बेबुनियाद आरोप मानसिक क्रूरता के बराबर है.
अदालत ने कहा, ‘इसलिए हमें इस बात पर कोई संदेह नहीं है कि लिखित बयान के पैरा छह में पत्नी की ओर से पति पर लगाए गए बेबुनियाद आरोप याचिकाकर्ता के चरित्र और प्रतिष्ठा को ठेस पहुंचाते हैं और यह मानसिक क्रूरता के बराबर है, जिसके कारण याचिकाकर्ता तलाक के आदेश की मांग करने का हकदार है.'
http://aajtak.intoday.in/story/false-allegations-of-infidelity-are-cruelty-says-high-court-1-737339.html
यदि कोई महिला अपने पति पर झूठा आरोप लगाती है कि विवाह के बाद भी उसके किसी पराई औरत के साथ संबंध हैं तो पति इन आरोपों के आधार पर तलाक की मांग कर सकता है. यही नहीं, इस तरह के आरोप मानसिक क्रूरता कहलाएंगे. बंबई हाई कोर्ट ने एक मामले में अपना फैसला सुनाते हुए ऐसा कहा है.
बंबई हाईकोर्ट ने अदालत की कार्यवाही के दौरान पत्नी द्वारा अपने पति पर विवाहोत्तर संबंधों के बेबुनियाद आरोप लगाने को क्रूरता करार देते हुए पति को इस आधार पर तलाक की मंज़ूरी दे दी.
पढ़ें: मैरिज एक्ट में संशोधनः पत्नी को मिलेगा पति की पैतृक संपत्ति में हिस्सा
अदालत ने पुणे की एक अदालत के फैसले को खारिज करते हुए यह आदेश दिया. निचली अदालत ने 11 जुलाई को क्रूरता के आधार पर दायर एक व्यक्ति की तलाक की याचिका खारिज कर दी थी.
पढ़ें: अफेयर खत्म होने पर सेक्स संबंध बलात्कार नहीं: हाईकोर्ट
न्यायमूर्ति जी एस पटेल और न्यायमूर्ति ओ एस ओका ने महेश और मोहिनी पैगुडे के बीच तलाक को मंजूरी दे दी. दोनों का विवाह 13 मार्च 2001 को हुआ था. महेश ने पुणे परिवार अदालत में याचिका दायर करके क्रूरता के आधार पर तलाक की मांग की थी. उसने कहा था कि उसकी पत्नी ने उस पर विवाहेतर संबंधों के बेबुनियाद आरोप लगाए.
उच्च न्यायालय ने कहा कि इस प्रकार के बेबुनियाद आरोप मानसिक क्रूरता के बराबर है.
अदालत ने कहा, ‘इसलिए हमें इस बात पर कोई संदेह नहीं है कि लिखित बयान के पैरा छह में पत्नी की ओर से पति पर लगाए गए बेबुनियाद आरोप याचिकाकर्ता के चरित्र और प्रतिष्ठा को ठेस पहुंचाते हैं और यह मानसिक क्रूरता के बराबर है, जिसके कारण याचिकाकर्ता तलाक के आदेश की मांग करने का हकदार है.'
http://aajtak.intoday.in/story/false-allegations-of-infidelity-are-cruelty-says-high-court-1-737339.html
Joyous divorce: Time for pre-nuptial arrangements?
Joyous divorce: Time for pre-nuptial arrangements?
The UPA Government’s determination to give divorced women a share in the inherited and inheritable property of their ex-husbands is a direct and blatant assault on the Hindu family and the sanctity of marriage, as it incentivises divorce by giving women a sense of false empowerment that comes from unearned wealth appropriated by unjust means.
The move is tantamount to daylight robbery of old parents and grandparents of a man whose wife may wish to leave him for any reason (including desire to marry another man), as property earned and owned by parents and grandparents can – instead of supporting them in their old age and retirement – be literally extorted by the courts and given to conniving young women after merely a month of marriage.
The move is faulty on many grounds and deserves robust response from society and all political parties. To begin with, since it is aimed at the Hindu community alone, it deserves to be challenged on grounds of religious assault and discrimination, which violates the basic tenets of the Indian Constitution. Secondly, it discriminates against the male gender by assuming that all divorce stems from the fault of men, another violation of Constitutional provisions. Thirdly, it opens a third party – parents and grandparents – to expropriation of their wealth when they are not a party to the divorce.
All these moves are bad in law and bad in intent. A disturbing aspect of the Cabinet decision is that it legitimises the mindless prattle of rootless women activists to destroy the institution of marriage, which is sacred in Hindu tradition, and reduces it to a contract in which one party benefits unduly if it departs. This, combined with a peculiar judicial ‘fashion’ (since it does not rest on law) to treat live-in relationships at par with marriage, has completely compromised the basic stability and integrity sanctity of the Hindu family.
Inheriting the ancestral property by divorced women
If an extra-legal tie like a live-in relationship, is itself the result of women’s empowerment and quest for freedom from social norms, is treated at par with marriage because a judge feels it is right, on what basis does the judiciary refuse to recognise a socially entrenched institution like the Khap Panchayat? Why should the rulings of Khap Panchayats – either against inter-caste or intra-gotra marriages or female foeticide or dowry – be deemed illegal and unworthy of judicial respect?
If Khap Panchayats are not recognised in law, neither are live-in relationships. Alternately, if live-in relations are akin to marriage, Khap Panchayats are akin to courts of law! Here it bears mentioning that the Supreme Court erred grievously when it ruled that illegitimate children have a right to ancestral property. This is morally wrong and needs to be undone; such children have a right to parental property alone.
Moreover, since a man cannot demand that his father give him a share of his (father’s) wealth or property while the father is still alive, how can this allegedly inheritable property be given to a wife quitting the marriage? It is quite insane. If a man intends to bequeath his property to someone else, can the courts take that right away?
Marriage laws to be made more women-friendly
The foundational issue that needs resolving here is the issue of women’s equality. Are female citizens of India equal to males, as envisaged by the Constitution, or are they incurable dependants who can never support themselves and whose upkeep, once transferred from the father/brother on marriage, must never revert to the woman herself or to her natal family. Hence the punitive provisions against (Hindu) husbands, to the extent of bleeding his entire family.
Ironically, this move is the exact reverse of the Muslim Women’s (Protection of Rights on Divorce) Act 1986 – by a Congress Government – which pushed the responsibility for destitute divorced women back on their natal families, even if they were in no position to assume such a burden, and absolved rich husbands of the duty to pay alimony to their abandoned wives.
Several issues are involved here, and deserve careful reasoning, as the measure will most impact middle classes that struggle hard to earn modest affluence, mostly in the form of a dwelling and some savings. First, the Government’s move to make divorce easier by introducing the ground of irretrievable breakdown as a reason to exit a marriage is welcome, but is negated by setting a three year deadline for ending marriages, when six months should be adequate. This offers both parties the opportunity to make a quick break and avoid the bitterness that accumulates through prolonged judicial proceedings.
Then, since the Government now believes that marriage is a contract, contract-style rules should be applied to a marriage. Since it will now be only between the two persons, who alone are responsible for its success or failure, third parties cannot be cited as reasons for breakdown of the marriage, and certainly their property/assets cannot be extracted by a departing wife. It bears mentioning that by giving judges the discretion to decide what compensation a divorcing wife is due from the wealth of her in-laws, the Government has opened a door for rampant judicial corruption. This should be closed without further ado.
Then, as in the case of contracts, length of tenure should be a deciding factor in settling the issue of compensation, if any. Here, first and foremost, a woman must be fully entitled to get back the shridhan she received at the time of marriage, and there can be no negotiation on this score. Yet here – in a classic instance of the right hand not knowing what the left is doing – the Government and the Judiciary have been stressing upon holding both sides guilty in cases of dowry harassment! This absurd logic has inhibited parents of girls from making a list of gifts given to girls at the time of marriage, with the result that they have no legal recourse when the marriage goes sour and they are thrown out of their matrimonial homes when their parents cannot fulfill unreasonable demands. Clearly, ‘progressive thinking’ works against weak women and empowers the undeserving.
To return to the issue of compensation, it must be related to the length of a marriage, which is a standard practice in the West (from where our ‘progressives’ derive their inspiration) where pre-nuptial contracts determine the compensation due to a women according to the length a marriage survives. There is usually nothing for a marriage that does not last five years. Moreover, any sharing of assets must be based on property/wealth earned or created by the couple during the duration of the marriage only, and cannot legitimately extend to cover property/wealth created by either before marriage.
If pre-marital assets are to be brought into the division, then this must be gender-neutral and a man married to a richer woman must get equal access to her and her family’s wealth. Then, while the rights of children, if any, are undeniable, there is no case for alimony for working women. The courts are aware that there have been several cases of affluent working women giving up their jobs when the marriage broke down in order to claim robust alimony as the price of consenting to divorce. This trend will be reinforced under the present proposed changes in divorce law, which will encourage women to take punitive action against their in-laws on the slightest pretext.
It is noteworthy that the rights of children to inherit ancestral property is sacrosanct in Hindu law; what the new law proposes is the deprive parents of a divorced man while they are still alive. It is pertinent that in many countries, such as Britain, all inherited property is excluded from divorce settlements. Regarding ‘inheritable’ property, it is pertinent that parents may need their assets for the marriage of other children, to support themselves, or pay for costly medical treatment of themselves or some member of the family.
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Extorting such property amounts to a virtual death sentence for aged parents and grandparents as a women unwilling to bear the responsibility of running a home and a marriage may find divorce an easy route to financial betterment. There remains the issue of remarriage of either or both parties. If a marriage breaks down after a few years and the man remarries, he will have another wife and children to look after, and this marriage may last the rest of his life. A wife of a few years can clearly not walk away with the bulk of his income and estate.
If the woman takes a handsome settlement, wins child custody and child support, and remarries, can the law ensure that the child of that marriage alone benefits from the settlement, and that the new husband and family does not take a share of it? The proposed legislation is an oxymoron; the sooner Parliament nixes it, the better. There is, however, an urgent case for legalising pre-nuptial agreements.
http://www.niticentral.com/2013/07/22/joyous-divorce-time-for-pre-nuptial-arrangements-107812.html
The UPA Government’s determination to give divorced women a share in the inherited and inheritable property of their ex-husbands is a direct and blatant assault on the Hindu family and the sanctity of marriage, as it incentivises divorce by giving women a sense of false empowerment that comes from unearned wealth appropriated by unjust means.
The move is tantamount to daylight robbery of old parents and grandparents of a man whose wife may wish to leave him for any reason (including desire to marry another man), as property earned and owned by parents and grandparents can – instead of supporting them in their old age and retirement – be literally extorted by the courts and given to conniving young women after merely a month of marriage.
The move is faulty on many grounds and deserves robust response from society and all political parties. To begin with, since it is aimed at the Hindu community alone, it deserves to be challenged on grounds of religious assault and discrimination, which violates the basic tenets of the Indian Constitution. Secondly, it discriminates against the male gender by assuming that all divorce stems from the fault of men, another violation of Constitutional provisions. Thirdly, it opens a third party – parents and grandparents – to expropriation of their wealth when they are not a party to the divorce.
All these moves are bad in law and bad in intent. A disturbing aspect of the Cabinet decision is that it legitimises the mindless prattle of rootless women activists to destroy the institution of marriage, which is sacred in Hindu tradition, and reduces it to a contract in which one party benefits unduly if it departs. This, combined with a peculiar judicial ‘fashion’ (since it does not rest on law) to treat live-in relationships at par with marriage, has completely compromised the basic stability and integrity sanctity of the Hindu family.
Inheriting the ancestral property by divorced women
If an extra-legal tie like a live-in relationship, is itself the result of women’s empowerment and quest for freedom from social norms, is treated at par with marriage because a judge feels it is right, on what basis does the judiciary refuse to recognise a socially entrenched institution like the Khap Panchayat? Why should the rulings of Khap Panchayats – either against inter-caste or intra-gotra marriages or female foeticide or dowry – be deemed illegal and unworthy of judicial respect?
If Khap Panchayats are not recognised in law, neither are live-in relationships. Alternately, if live-in relations are akin to marriage, Khap Panchayats are akin to courts of law! Here it bears mentioning that the Supreme Court erred grievously when it ruled that illegitimate children have a right to ancestral property. This is morally wrong and needs to be undone; such children have a right to parental property alone.
Moreover, since a man cannot demand that his father give him a share of his (father’s) wealth or property while the father is still alive, how can this allegedly inheritable property be given to a wife quitting the marriage? It is quite insane. If a man intends to bequeath his property to someone else, can the courts take that right away?
Marriage laws to be made more women-friendly
The foundational issue that needs resolving here is the issue of women’s equality. Are female citizens of India equal to males, as envisaged by the Constitution, or are they incurable dependants who can never support themselves and whose upkeep, once transferred from the father/brother on marriage, must never revert to the woman herself or to her natal family. Hence the punitive provisions against (Hindu) husbands, to the extent of bleeding his entire family.
Ironically, this move is the exact reverse of the Muslim Women’s (Protection of Rights on Divorce) Act 1986 – by a Congress Government – which pushed the responsibility for destitute divorced women back on their natal families, even if they were in no position to assume such a burden, and absolved rich husbands of the duty to pay alimony to their abandoned wives.
Several issues are involved here, and deserve careful reasoning, as the measure will most impact middle classes that struggle hard to earn modest affluence, mostly in the form of a dwelling and some savings. First, the Government’s move to make divorce easier by introducing the ground of irretrievable breakdown as a reason to exit a marriage is welcome, but is negated by setting a three year deadline for ending marriages, when six months should be adequate. This offers both parties the opportunity to make a quick break and avoid the bitterness that accumulates through prolonged judicial proceedings.
Then, since the Government now believes that marriage is a contract, contract-style rules should be applied to a marriage. Since it will now be only between the two persons, who alone are responsible for its success or failure, third parties cannot be cited as reasons for breakdown of the marriage, and certainly their property/assets cannot be extracted by a departing wife. It bears mentioning that by giving judges the discretion to decide what compensation a divorcing wife is due from the wealth of her in-laws, the Government has opened a door for rampant judicial corruption. This should be closed without further ado.
Then, as in the case of contracts, length of tenure should be a deciding factor in settling the issue of compensation, if any. Here, first and foremost, a woman must be fully entitled to get back the shridhan she received at the time of marriage, and there can be no negotiation on this score. Yet here – in a classic instance of the right hand not knowing what the left is doing – the Government and the Judiciary have been stressing upon holding both sides guilty in cases of dowry harassment! This absurd logic has inhibited parents of girls from making a list of gifts given to girls at the time of marriage, with the result that they have no legal recourse when the marriage goes sour and they are thrown out of their matrimonial homes when their parents cannot fulfill unreasonable demands. Clearly, ‘progressive thinking’ works against weak women and empowers the undeserving.
To return to the issue of compensation, it must be related to the length of a marriage, which is a standard practice in the West (from where our ‘progressives’ derive their inspiration) where pre-nuptial contracts determine the compensation due to a women according to the length a marriage survives. There is usually nothing for a marriage that does not last five years. Moreover, any sharing of assets must be based on property/wealth earned or created by the couple during the duration of the marriage only, and cannot legitimately extend to cover property/wealth created by either before marriage.
If pre-marital assets are to be brought into the division, then this must be gender-neutral and a man married to a richer woman must get equal access to her and her family’s wealth. Then, while the rights of children, if any, are undeniable, there is no case for alimony for working women. The courts are aware that there have been several cases of affluent working women giving up their jobs when the marriage broke down in order to claim robust alimony as the price of consenting to divorce. This trend will be reinforced under the present proposed changes in divorce law, which will encourage women to take punitive action against their in-laws on the slightest pretext.
It is noteworthy that the rights of children to inherit ancestral property is sacrosanct in Hindu law; what the new law proposes is the deprive parents of a divorced man while they are still alive. It is pertinent that in many countries, such as Britain, all inherited property is excluded from divorce settlements. Regarding ‘inheritable’ property, it is pertinent that parents may need their assets for the marriage of other children, to support themselves, or pay for costly medical treatment of themselves or some member of the family.
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Extorting such property amounts to a virtual death sentence for aged parents and grandparents as a women unwilling to bear the responsibility of running a home and a marriage may find divorce an easy route to financial betterment. There remains the issue of remarriage of either or both parties. If a marriage breaks down after a few years and the man remarries, he will have another wife and children to look after, and this marriage may last the rest of his life. A wife of a few years can clearly not walk away with the bulk of his income and estate.
If the woman takes a handsome settlement, wins child custody and child support, and remarries, can the law ensure that the child of that marriage alone benefits from the settlement, and that the new husband and family does not take a share of it? The proposed legislation is an oxymoron; the sooner Parliament nixes it, the better. There is, however, an urgent case for legalising pre-nuptial agreements.
http://www.niticentral.com/2013/07/22/joyous-divorce-time-for-pre-nuptial-arrangements-107812.html
Daughter's father use her daughter for Dowry and extortion from Boy's father
Daughter's father use her daughter for Dowry and extortion from Boy's father
In Indian society because of gender biased laws like 498a, DVact & many more stupid laws Father is becoming xxx & making daughter as xxx, as wide misuse of 498a & DVAct are getting used as weapons to extort money from husband, where are we heading?
http://www.desi-tashan.com/savdhaan-india-at-11-crime-alert-26th-july-2013-episode/
In Indian society because of gender biased laws like 498a, DVact & many more stupid laws Father is becoming xxx & making daughter as xxx, as wide misuse of 498a & DVAct are getting used as weapons to extort money from husband, where are we heading?
http://www.desi-tashan.com/savdhaan-india-at-11-crime-alert-26th-july-2013-episode/
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