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Easy divorce a threat to family ties

Easy divorce a threat to family ties

The proposal to introduce 'irretrievable breakdown of marriage' as a ground for divorce is aimed at giving a spouse the right to walk out of a wrecked marriage.
But allowing one of the parties to take a decision to end a relationship which is basically contractual, might lead to victimisation of the other party. It is indeed traumatic for a spouse to be forced to continue in a practically non-existent marriage but dissolving such a relationship without the consent of the other spouse, who might not be at fault, could amount to injustice.
The incorporation of this additional ground for divorce in the Hindu Marriage Act and the Special Marriage Act would, for the first time, allow a spouse to unilaterally seek dissolution of an unhappy marriage on the ground that it cannot be salvaged. At present, this is allowed only on faults of adultery, cruelty and desertion by the other party. There is no doubt that divorce based primarily on fault cannot deal with incompatible marriages but such situations are by and large taken care of by the provision permitting divorce with mutual consent.
The proposal might harm the institution of marriage and lead to victimisation of women. It empowers a court to allow an application for dissolution of a broken marriage if the parties had been living apart for three or more years.
However, there is a proposal for giving wives the exclusive right to oppose such petitions filed by husbands. Though this might benefit a certain class of women, it would hardly mean anything to a majority of women in the country.
There have been instances of women being turned out of matrimonial homes for a variety of reasons, especially for not bringing adequate dowry. Such cases seldom get reported, in the hope in the hope of reconciliation. Husbands, in such cases, would have an advantage with wives having nothing on record to repel the argument of irretrievable breakdown of marriage by him.
Thus, the benefits of the proposed amendments, in the absence of more safeguards, are outweighed by the dangers they pose. More so, when the existing provisions have already been able to substantially deal with the problem. A spouse can seek divorce on the ground of desertion if the other has abandoned him or her for over two years.
Mutual consent is the answer to the argument that a non-existent relationship should not be kept alive on paper. If a marriage breaks down, the parties to the marriage should jointly take a decision. Leaving the decision to one of them would make all other provisions of divorce virtually meaningless. A party would claim that the marriage has broken down rather than try to prove fault of the other party. The courts have already expanded the meaning of cruelty to include almost everything- denying sex, abusing, not staying with the husband and even refusing to cook food for the husband.
A case of irretrievable breakdown would squarely fall within the meaning of desertion and cruelty but a party at fault cannot seek divorce on these grounds. With irretrievable breakdown being added when desertion was already a ground for divorce, the former would have to be interpreted in a liberal manner.
In what could shed light on the problems in store, the Supreme Court in 2006 dissolved a marriage on the ground of irretrievable breakdown using its extraordinary powers of going beyond law under Article 142. Ironically, the husband, who knew the girl closely before deciding to marry, claimed that their marriage had broken down due to the basic difference in their social status and inability of the wife to adjust to a middle class life. Doesn't this make all inter-class marriages vulnerable?
'No fault divorce' would only increase the divorce rate in the country. This would have been fine if starting a new life was easy. This is not so in a country where most marriages are arranged.
Backing family ties, Justice Krishna Iyer, in a judgment in 1978, stressed that the erotic doctrine of 'sip every flower and change every hour' and the philosophy of philandering self-fulfilment had to be combated on a militant basis.
Media trial unites the jurists of our time
The media is virtually on trial before the Supreme Court for its 'excesses'. A Constitution bench of the SC is considering an application seeking guidelines for the media on reporting of matters that are subjudice. But there is a stark contrast between the aggression with which critics react to, what is often termed as, trial by media and the non-adversarial nature of the trial of the media before the court.
Eminent lawyer Fali S Nariman, appearing for none other than the applicant company itself, set the tone for the hearing by stating at the outset that the court was empowered to frame normative guidelines but not guidelines which could be enforced as a law.
He was followed by Soli J Sorabjee, G E Vahanvati and Rajeev Dhawan, all of whom defended media freedom. Many more are likely to follow as the hearing progresses.
Initially many journalists were apprehensive but their concerns have now taken a backseat with the legal stalwarts of our time taking up cudgels for the media.
The SC, being a court of record, has certain inherent powers and could well decide to frame guidelines for the media on its own. But it is presently considering guidelines on an application filed by a company.
A reading of the application which is being heard by the Constitution bench, however, shows that it had been filed on the directions of the court itself.
House for Mr Nariman has a rich foundation
Solicitor General Rohington Nariman couldn't have been allotted a better official bungalow in the national capital. Nariman has been given the bungalow which once housed the first Solicitor General of India, C K Daphtary.
The address - 3, Krishna Menon Marg - also makes him a neighbor of Chief Justice S H Kapadia.
Daphtary, who features in the Bar Council of India's list of legends, was appointed the first Solicitor General in 1951 and was subsequently made the Attorney General in 1963.
The bungalow was recently vacated by former defence minister George Fernandes, who had been living there since 1998.
'Hindu link' to terror law
A controversial proposal by the government to include a Hindu Undivided Family (HUF) within the definition of a person in the existing antiterror law has been opposed by Parliamentarians.
The Parliamentary Standing Committee on Home Affairs has taken exception to insertion of section 2(i)(eb) to the Unlawful Activities (Prevention) Act to define "person" as an individual, a Hindu Undivided Family (HUF), a company, a firm etc. The government, which proposes to amend the law to deal with terror funds, stressed that the definition was consistent with the definition in the Income Tax Act.
The committee, however, pointed out that incorporation of HUF in the Income Tax Act was meant to give some tax relief to people falling in the category. The committee said a person should mean what it does in common parlance as well as in criminal law.

http://indiatoday.intoday.in/story/easy-divorce-a-threat-to-family-ties/1/182447.html

Men seek equality, say divorce laws treat husbands as ATMs

Men seek equality, say divorce laws treat husbands as ATMs

Men seek equality, say divorce laws treat husbands as ATMs

Men seek equality, say divorce laws treat husbands as ATMs

Vishal Kant, Mar 31, 2012 :
Property of husband and wife must be divided equally, not just the husband’s, say men
The latest decision of the Union cabinet to amend divorce laws has been opposed by organisations which say they work to protect the rights of men.

These organisations claim that divorce laws favour the interests of women and reduce men to being ATMs, good enough to extract money any time.

“The new law should not make marriage a property transfer bureau and turn husbands into free ATM money. Everywhere around the world, in case of divorce, the property of both spouses is divided. But here it is being suggested that only the husband’s property must be divided,” said Niladri Das of Save Family Foundation, a Delhi-based organisation.

This foundation was one of the organisations called by the Parliamentary Committee headed by Union minister Jayanthi Natarajn, which looked into the Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill, 2010.

The foundation claims to have an active membership of 5,000 people, and has a network spread across the country through 40 NGOs.

The organisation claimed that it has been getting panic calls from men who want to understand the nuances and the financial implications of the amendment.

“Several men are calling to seek suggestions on whether they should sell off their property. Some who are planning to buy a house are confused whether they should go ahead or not,” Das said.

Alimony issues


He also objected to other clauses in the proposed amendment, such as the duration of marriage as a determinant for computing the amount of alimony to a woman.

“Across the world, the duration of marriage is taken into account to finalise the amount of alimony. But in our country, whether it is a month or 20 years, the matter is treated as the same,” he added.

Das said they have been highlighting these issues at several forums and will continue to do so. 

Organisation members demanded that the revised comprehensive Bill should be gender neutral, with sufficient inbuilt safeguards to prevent misuse against any gender.

The words ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ should be replaced by ‘spouse’ in the Bill, a member of Save Family Foundation said.

http://www.deccanherald.com/content/238681/men-seek-equality-say-divorce.html 

Father seeks euthanasia for son

Father seeks euthanasia for son

MADURAI: A coolie in Kanyakumari district has sought permission for euthanasia of his infant son, who has been suffering from an unknown disorder since his birth.

Dennis Kumar of Vandavillai near Marthandam, in his petition to the Kanyakumari district collector has said that he was married to Sujatha, two years ago. When she became pregnant, he had wanted the best treatment for his wife and child and consulted a private nursing home in Marthandam. He had taken his wife for regular check-ups and the doctors had claimed that everything was well.

On June 4, 2011 when he took his wife to the hospital, the staff there told him that she would deliver only on June 7 and sent them home. However, she started bleeding heavily on the night of June 4 and he had to rush her to the hospital. As the doctors were not present at the hospital during that time, the nurses there had allegedly told him to clean his wife's bleeding and he had complied. When the doctor came at 4am, the woman was rushed to the delivery room, where she delivered a baby boy. They had kept the mother and infant in the hospital for a few days before discharging them. Fifteen days later, when he took the infant to hospital for a check-up, the doctor had told him that the infant was looking unhealthy and asked the mother to feed him well. But, the child developed fits in the hospital itself and the doctor had asked Kumar to admit him.

However, Kumar said that he had lost confidence in the doctors and refused to admit the child there but had sought a letter of reference to another hospital, based on which he took his son to Thiruvananthapuram. The doctors in the hospital there told him that the child seemed to have suffered from the lack of glucose during birth after an MRI scan.

He prayed that he be given permission for euthanasia for his infant son who was suffering for the past 11 months, as his movements were restricted due to his unsteady neck. The man claimed that he had spent more than Rs five lakh on his son's medical expenses and was unable to spend more. Euthanasia would put him and his son out of misery, he claimed.

Kumar has also sent similar petitions to the chief minister's special cell.
 http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/madurai/Father-seeks-euthanasia-for-son/articleshow/20098633.cms 

17-year-old girl attacks another for refusing to marry her, held

17-year-old girl attacks another for refusing to marry her, held

BHIWANI: This borders on the bizarre. A 17-year-old girl was arrested for allegedly attacking another girl, also a minor, with a knife when she turned down her marriage proposal, in a village near here.

Police said that both the girls were classmates and the accused was held on the complaint of the victim's parents.

The accused girl, who has been sent to a juvenile home in Hisar, had also threatened to commit suicide if the latter didn't marry her, police said.

The cops failed to placate the accused minor girl even with the help of counsellors, said a senior police officer. She has been booked on charges of assault and suicide bid threat.

Both the girls are studying in government senior secondary girls' school in Sanwar village. They passed Class XI exams recently and were promoted to Class XII.

Probe revealed that the girls have been close friends for the last three years and spent most of the time together in school and after it too, said the officer.

However, trouble began when the accused insisted on marrying the other girl. Shocked at her proposal, the victim girl revealed the matter to her parents, who tried to sort out the matter by counselling her.

But she refused to listen to their pleas and attacked the victim girl with a knife, causing injury, when the latter was alone at her house on Monday.

The terrified girl, along with her parents, approached Bond police on Wednesday evening and lodged a complaint against her.

Bond police station SHO Daya Singh said that the accused minor has been booked for assaulting her classmate and for threatening to commit suicide. 
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chandigarh/17-year-old-girl-attacks-another-for-refusing-to-marry-her-held/articleshow/20115470.cms 

HC comes to aid of parents harassed by daughters-in-law

HC comes to aid of parents harassed by daughters-in-law

The Delhi High Court on Thursday spelt relief to a large number of aged parents tormented by their daughters-in-law, eyeing matrimonial property after separation from their husbands. The court ruled that a daughter-in-law cannot claim the right to live in a property owned by her in-laws or to inherit if her husband has moved out.
“One cannot shy away from the hard-hitting reality that it is not always the daughter-in-law who is berated but at times the in-laws who are at the receiving end of the daughter-in-law’s cantankerousness (crankiness). It should not be consigned to oblivion that the parents-in-law have every right to live in peace in their own property and the right to property vested in them cannot be snatched away and used as a tool to harass them,” said Justice Kailash Gambhir.
“The daughter-in-law has no right to stay in the said property especially after the exit of her husband from the property," Justice Gambhir added.
Many harassed parents — whose daughters-in-law continue to live with them even after separation from their sons with an eye on the property and maintenance, even when the son has left their home — can draw relief from this judgment.
The remarks came while delivered judgement in a suit filed by a mother-in-law Radha seeking a direction to her son and daughter-in-law to vacate her house.
Her son Suraj had married Renuka on April 27, 2009. But soon serious differences arose between them after which Suraj moved out.
Radha complained of harassment at Renuka's hands. Renuka too filed a complaint of domestic violence, claimed maintenance and a decree declaring the matrimonial house as her sole and exclusive property. Perusing the files, the judge came to the conclusion that the property was owned by her mother-in-law and could not be treated as a joint family property.
http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/NewDelhi/HC-comes-to-aid-of-parents-harassed-by-daughters-in-law/Article1-846742.aspx